Questions and observations

So my observations are:

* The mother seems to be too concerned about the cemetery of her child. And this leads my questions: why is he so concerned about this?

* The narrators are definitely boys, and mostly the same age as the Lisbon brothers.

* Some of the sisters don't seem to be too concerned about Cecilia's state after attempting suicide. Lux, for example, says that Cecilia's fine in the bath, but she is stinking the house with bath salts.

* Why do the kids think that everyone is not used to loosing someone, when most of them have parents that fought in the war?